I have mentioned a few time about how most of us were never taught money management at a young age. So I wanted to talk about teaching your child how to manage their finances. Since I do not have children and hate talking about things I have not experienced first hand, I will point out the importance of teaching them in a different way.
The reason Americans are so bad with money is not because we can’t save, It is because of two things…
1) our parents never taught us how.
2) There are a million things to spend money on.
The fact that our parents never taught us money management, only shows that they did not learn it themselves. Once you learn the benefits of personal financial management, not passing it on to your children should not be an option. As a parent you should want your kids to be successful in life and being independent is a sign of success. It does not matter how much they end up earning for a living, if they know how to manage it, they can live very comfortable and stay out of the number one pitfall in America…DEBT! Just think of all the time you said to yourself “If I only knew”. Well, now you do and have a chance to break the cycle.
We all depend on money in one way or another, some of us use it to better our lives and some of us get used by it. Some of us work hard for it and some of us put it to work for us. By social standards the ones that use it to better their lives and put it to work for them are the successful ones. It becomes very easy to make your money work for you if you understand how money works. If at age 20 you knew the basics of saving and planning for retirement, it is most likely that you would have started saving for it then. Worst case scenario, when it come time to retire you would have enough to live of the interest. Best case scenario you would have an island next to Angelina Jolie with a private jet to swoop you anywhere you want to go.
The second reason we do not manage money well, is there are so many companies trying to get it out of our pockets. These companies have the best advertising minds and years of research working to get us spending. I have nothing against buying what you want and need but, there are ways to get everything we want. The problems is, we do not want to wait or save for these things. Children’s minds are copy machines, they usually end up doing what they see us do and continue that pattern all their lives. There financial future depends on what they learn from a young age. I was taught by my mother at a young age how to manage my money and because of this, I have always been good at saving and spending. If she did not take the time to teach me, it is a good chance I would not have the skills and patients that I have today.
My rule in life is the save for everything over $10 and before I had a handle on it, I had what I called a $10 sub-savings account. I would keep it at $100 and when I used any of it I would replace it $10 at a time. It is little things like these that I will teach my kids when I am lucky enough to have some. If you do not have good financial habits, start developing some now and teach them to you young ones as you learn them.
I think I went on long enough this post, I hope you got the point and take actions to make it work for you.